What do you do when

your best friend is jealous of the relationship you have with your youth pastor? when you were able to move on from a wound, but she wasnt? what do you do when you want to help your best friend but know that she is just being overly sensitive and taking non-personal things to heart? what do you say when you know the person hasnt put enough effort in, and thats why her relationship isnt as far as your own? what do you do when your best friend is angry and tells you and is frusturated with you, and you look at the situation and know its your best friends fault?



i have no idea what to say right now. im not going to agree and insult him when he hasnt done anything wrong. just because im close with him doesnt mean hes done all the work to get there. iv done a lot of it. it was me stepping up in the first place taht has got us to where we are. so how do i tel her she hasnt worked hard enough for it? its not something you just get handed? how do you nicely tell her hes not the same guy? how do you tell her she needs to mature some more, or move on, maybe put some effort in and shell get it in return?

my best friend is extremely sensitive. she can be downright cruel, and you can say a little insult and be grudged for weeks. no matter what i say, shell take it the wrong way. no matter what i do, shell take it the wrong way. so i dont know what to do. but she expects something.





crap. tim wasnt kidding. EVERYTHING is happening at the SAME FREAKING TIME.
whats next?